Sunday, September 9, 2012

Stuff the wedding!

goo Ranking recently conducted a survey into when people think ?we don?t really have to have our own wedding ceremony or reception!?

Demographics

From the 6th to the 9th of July 2012 1,016 members of the goo Research monitor group completed a private internet-based questionnaire. 60.0% of the sample were female, 9.9% in their teens, 12.7% in their twenties, 29.0% in their thirties, 27.0% in their forties, 11.0% in their fifties, and 10.3% aged sixty or older. Note that the score in the results refers to the relative number of votes for each option, not a percentage of the total sample. I?m not sure if unmarried people were excluded or just had to imagine how it might be for them.

I found this photo on Flick, and there?s something quite appropriate about it all just being a non-descript blur.

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Japanese weddings are on the whole hopelessly formulaic, almost production line-like with a standard set of cliched events running through them; the entrance, friends doing an ?amusing? skit, the bride dress change, the candle lighting, etc, etc, all running on a strict timetable ? none of this open bar, dancing until dawn and amusing vandalisation of the new couple?s car, let alone people passing out drunk, the embarassing uncle trying to get off with the bridesmaid, or even a fist fight or two.

Just to toot my own horn, however, a number of our friends said our wedding was one of the best they?d been to, which I put down mostly to us actually smiling. If you ever look at Japanese wedding photos, especially the formal ones, it is not the done thing for the groom to look happy.

Ranking result

Q: When did, would you think ?we don?t really have to have our own wedding ceremony or reception!?? (Sample size=1,016)

Rank ? Score
1 When the preparations were a pain in the bum 100
2 When I wanted to use the wedding fees as savings instead 76.9
3 When I had no money to hold a ceremony 68.8
4 When looking after the guests was a pain in the bum 47.5
5 When I wanted to use some of the expenses for the honeymoon instead 40.1
6 When I don?t want to become an exhibit 39.8
7 When I felt that just getting a few photos was enough 37.4
8 When I couldn?t decide who to invite 30.9
9 When I didn?t have any friends close enough to want to invite 26.4
10 When I wasn?t interested in wedding dresses, white kimono, morning dress, etc 25.8
11 When I wanted to invite friends only as dealing with relatives was a pain in the bum 23.4
12 When I booked a simple wedding party for close friends only 21.7
13 When I couldn?t expect any help from my parents 19.3
14 When I feel it?s inexcusable to get expensive gifts just for our own satisfaction 18.4
15 When it wasn?t my first wedding 13.6
16 When I cannot forget the legacy of the extravagance of The Bubble 13.1
17 When I couldn?t recall any emotions from weddings I?d been invited to 8.9
18 When I had a bun in the oven 8.0
19 When we couldn?t choose a suitable place for our distant families to all gather 6.5
20 When I wanted to hold a ceremony but my partner just couldn?t get excited about it 4.7
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